TCA Resources

Lubricants increase pleasure. Your genital skin is very sensitive. It cradles the nerve endings that allow you to experience touch and other sensations. And although skin is strong, it can be harmed by vigorous rubbing. Sexual intimacy usually includes friction, and often the body doesn’t have enough wetness or protection to last for an entire intimate ...

This week’s gay rights victory was historic, but the transgender community still faces staggering challenges. John Oliver focuses on the “T” in “LGBT." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmoAX9f6MOc

Relay Introduction After experience with isolation in his recovery process, Chandler Rogers built Relay, a mobile app that helps porn/sex addiction recovery clients stay more connected and accountable with peers, both for individuals and for groups. For individual clients, Relay helps match clients into asynchronous peer support groups based on their ...

Personal stories of LGBTQ elders navigating sex and aging, emphasizing activism and identity. Skinner House Books, 2020.

A practical, approachable guide with tips on enjoying intimacy at any age. Cleis Press, 2014.

Promotes a healthy, pleasure-based approach to sexuality for aging couples, challenging myths and emphasizing intimacy over performance and stereotypes. Routledge, 2022.

Examines the aging of gay men, revealing diverse experiences shaped by race, AIDS, and age. Oxford University Press, 2016.

How does enmeshment with a parent lead to sexual brokenness? And how can we heal from it? In this episode, Dr. Ken Adams will inspire you to break free from inappropriate loyalty so you can regain your passion and purpose in life. Dr. Ken Adams is a world-renowned therapist and expert on enmeshment, covert incest, shame, abuse, and sex addiction. Lea ...

Libido is your unique, personal, sexual psychic force. Because we are only semiconscious of this force, our conscious minds are not completely in control of the psychic force . Although we are always in control of how we act in response to libido, it is the less-than-conscious aspect that accounts for why it feels pushy, or external. People use the word ...